Jul 28 2010
The Eighth Sunday after Pentecost
This is the sermon for the The Eighth Sunday after Pentecost. The sermon text is: Romans 12:9-21. The sermon theme is: How Do You Look At Love?. Here is the Written Sermon.
How Do You Look At Love?
Allison in a Christian in the west. She loves her children dearly. So, she has them in sports and activities. She is so busy that she only manages to bring her children to church about once every six or eight weeks. Aria is a Christian in the east. She loves her children dearly. She didn’t grow up as a Christian. And so, she spends much of her time at church. She teaches Sunday School. She cleans around the church. She is involved in the women’s ministries at church. But, you wouldn’t want to surprise her and visit her home. It is often unclean and unkept. Doug is a Christian in the south. He loves his children dearly. So, he takes his job seriously. He gets up early. He works hard. And he comes home late. And when he gets home, he eats and then sits in his chair. And that’s what his children have come to know of their dad. He’s the guy who comes home and sleeps in the chair in the living room. But that’s about all they know him as.
Now, as you take a step back and look at these three parents, ask yourself the question: which one of these parents dearly loves their children? You see, if your definition is somewhat shallow, then the answer is ‘all of them.’ However, if you look at love the way Paul does here in Romans 12, you arrive at a different picture. In truth, none of them have the sort of love that Paul describes here. Listen to how Paul describes love in these words: “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” 1
As I was translating these words, I very quickly realized that these words were far more like nails than bandaids. And every time I studied another one of them, it drove another spike into my soul. Paul starts out and he says that love is not a hypocrite. How often has my love been hypocritical? Paul says that true love honors others above myself. And, as I peer into my soul, I see many times and many ways that my love has been self- serving and self-loving.
And, if you read these words closely and sincerely, the more you read, the worse it gets. Paul continues on and he speaks about the love we aren’t not just supposed to share with those who are close to us. He speaks about our love to those who are on the outside, looking in: “Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.” 2
What about you, my brothers and sisters, how often do you repay evil for evil? If someone wrongs you, you may not go out and harm them back. But how often have your really wanted to? How often do we leave room for God’s wrath. So very often, if their’s justice and wrath to be done, our Lord doesn’t have much to do because we have either avenged ourselves in our actions or in our thoughts.
How do you look at love? If love is a shallow feeling that we can make up as we go along, they we can do it. But, if you look at what God’s word says, you find something different. You find an impossible standard. For all of us continually love ourselves. For all of us continually wants to avenge ourselves—to defend our honor and our glory.
Why would God do this? Why would he set the bar so high? Why would he command us to love perfectly? Just look at our gospel for today.3 There we meet a teacher who needed to be a student. He thought that he loved God enough. He thought he loved his neighbor enough. Jesus walks him through a story. And every word must have pierced that expert in the law. The expert learned the lesson that everyone in his life was his neighbor. And if he couldn’t even a good neighbor to his neighbors, then how could he love God perfectly? Jesus demanded his perfect love not because he expected it a price to earn heaven. No, he spoke these words to show him that he had to look outside of himself for salvation.
And there is where we rejoice. For just when we are at the point when we despair in our own works, then we can look to Jesus and rejoice in his works. In Jesus we see a Savior who loved those close to him. In Luke 18, we hear about a woman who had been crippled by a demon for eighteen years. Jesus heals her. And, of course, since he did so on the Sabbath, the Jews accuse him of sin. Listen to his response: ““You hypocrites! Doesn’t each of you on the Sabbath untie his ox or donkey from the stall and lead it out to give it water? Then should not this woman, a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan has kept bound for eighteen long years, be set free on the Sabbath day from what bound her?”” 4
Jesus loved this woman, who was like him. She was a daughter of Abraham. He loved her enough to be persecuted by the Jews. He loved her enough to heal her and take away her sin. But Jesus also loved those who were not daughters of Abraham. In John 4, we meet the Samaritan woman. This was a woman who was very much not like Jesus. And yet Jesus goes to her, searches her out. He exposes her sin. He tells her that he is the Messiah.
Now my brothers and sisters, I spend the time reminding you of these times that Jesus showed real and true love to those near and those far away for a reason! If you hear about Jesus perfectly loving this daughter of Abraham and this daughter of Samaria your response is: “I gotta be more like Jesus”, then you have completely missed the point. Jesus was perfect because you could not be. Jesus loved those near and those far away because you are unable to. Jesus loves perfectly as your substitute, not as your example. And there on that bloody cross and there in that cold, empty tomb Jesus takes away your sin and earns this perfect love for you. And then, in water and word he gives to you what he won for you. He baptizes you and washes away your sin. But there is also something else meaningful and wonderful that happens there. He gives you a new person inside of you. So now, there is a perfect person inside of you who is stronger than your old self. It is to this new person that Paul speaks these words here in Romans 12. He speaks them as commands to our old self. But he speaks them now as invitations to our new self.
My brothers and sisters, I mention these facts because, as we look at ourselves it is all too easy to see the old self. It is all too easy to see how impossible it is for us to love completely. But it is difficult to see our new self. It is ever-so-difficult to see the Holy Spirit at work in us. He is there. But he is invisible.
Since we have these great and wonderful promises, we can turn to these invitations of Paul and look at them with joy. Love sincerely. And that starts with seeing Jesus’ great love for you. Spend time in God’s word. Read God’s word at home. Study God’s word here with your pastor and your brothers and sisters in Christ. Put others ahead of yourself. Build others up in the faith. Pray for others. Serve others. And finally, leave room for God’s wrath. Your are a baptized child of God. You are his. He will look out for you. He will protect you. Let him avenge his own name and his own children.
How then do you look at love? It is impossible for us. It is accomplished in Christ. It is given to us in baptism. Amen.
1 (Romans 12:9–12 NIV)
2 (Romans 12:16–19 NIV)
4 (Luke 13:15–16 NIV)







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